Keeping In Touch

I’m afraid I’ve hit a dry spell but I don’t want to abandon my readers. I thought I would fill you in on what’s going on with me.

A second marriage wasn’t in the cards for me so I am becoming an expert at living single.

Actually it’s not bad as long as my needs are being met. By needs I mean Maslow’s hierarchy of needs.

I’m living to make the dollars count and not waste any time.

It’s been harder finding relationships that are satisfying to me.

I enjoy people though.

I think the relationship a person has with themselves comes first.

We have to learn to meet our own needs.

I practice manners in my apartment building.

I try to make the interactions count when I encounter a neighbor addressing each one by name.

I am losing weight on my own without paying for an expensive diet.

What I’m saying is the things that I can control I’m trying to do a good job at.

Scented wax warmer

I purchased a few scented wax warmers to add ambience to my apartment.

I am taking pride in my life.

I appreciate honest, straightforward, no nonsense people.

I find a lot of that here in the blogs.

Blogland can really be very satisfying.

Just keeping in touch.

Thanks for stopping by.

Categories mental health

16 thoughts on “Keeping In Touch

  1. Awesome tips, Ruby! And you’re so right about the people on the blog! They are the realest more authentic people on the internet and it’s why I enjoy blogging! We can learn so much from other bloggers! Thank you so much for posting! 💖💐🌻🌺🏵

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    1. Thank you for your comment 😊 It truly is wonderful that we are all experts at something here in blogland and like you said, you get authenticity which is so refreshing these days 💕 🌸 🌞

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      1. You’re most welcome! 💖

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  2. It sounds like you’re doing a very good job. I’ve been single for quite a while now, but I’m meeting my own needs and the guinea pigs help me from feeling like I’m fully alone. Blogland helps a lot too.

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    1. I hear you 😊 I’m with you on that 💕

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  3. This is a beautiful way to live. Marriage certainly isn’t the be all and end all … It’s who we are, and having a sense of inner peace, that really matters.

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    1. Thank you for your comment 😊 I’m trying my best. I always had a companion until now. I’m having to be strong and do everything as a single.

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  4. Marriage if it happens, happens when you least expect it. I was 38 when I met me husband, it’ been 20 years. the first didn’t work .

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    1. I appreciate you telling me that Melinda. So there is no set pattern or particular way that things happen. Thank you for your comment 😊 💕

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      1. Kepp living in a way that makes you happy and stay focused on your health, life will work itself out.

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  5. I’m glad you are keeping in touch. I’m having a really hard time with blogging lately. But like you said, blogland can be very satisfying.

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    1. Thank you for your comment Linda. Yes I’m finding that some of the people in blogland know me better than those in real life 😊 💕

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  6. These are all great habits.❤️I love your wax warmer, I have a couple of them myself. I enjoy a Zen scent that reminds me of a spa. Thank you for sharing.✨

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    1. Thank you Amber. After years of trial and error I’m making new rules to live by. The scent warmer in the picture I believe is the ocean with the sun rising above it. The bulb inside serves as the sun. I will have to try the Zen scent. 😊 💕

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      1. That’s such a cool concept, the bulb as the sun.✨

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