I’m afraid I’ve hit a dry spell but I don’t want to abandon my readers. I thought I would fill you in on what’s going on with me.
A second marriage wasn’t in the cards for me so I am becoming an expert at living single.
Actually it’s not bad as long as my needs are being met. By needs I mean Maslow’s hierarchy of needs.
I’m living to make the dollars count and not waste any time.
It’s been harder finding relationships that are satisfying to me.
I enjoy people though.
I think the relationship a person has with themselves comes first.
We have to learn to meet our own needs.
I practice manners in my apartment building.
I try to make the interactions count when I encounter a neighbor addressing each one by name.
I am losing weight on my own without paying for an expensive diet.
What I’m saying is the things that I can control I’m trying to do a good job at.
I purchased a few scented wax warmers to add ambience to my apartment.
I am taking pride in my life.
I appreciate honest, straightforward, no nonsense people.
I find a lot of that here in the blogs.
Blogland can really be very satisfying.
Just keeping in touch.
Thanks for stopping by.
Bipolar: A Way Of Life 
Awesome tips, Ruby! And you’re so right about the people on the blog! They are the realest more authentic people on the internet and it’s why I enjoy blogging! We can learn so much from other bloggers! Thank you so much for posting! 💖💐🌻🌺🏵
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Thank you for your comment 😊 It truly is wonderful that we are all experts at something here in blogland and like you said, you get authenticity which is so refreshing these days 💕 🌸 🌞
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You’re most welcome! 💖
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It sounds like you’re doing a very good job. I’ve been single for quite a while now, but I’m meeting my own needs and the guinea pigs help me from feeling like I’m fully alone. Blogland helps a lot too.
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I hear you 😊 I’m with you on that 💕
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This is a beautiful way to live. Marriage certainly isn’t the be all and end all … It’s who we are, and having a sense of inner peace, that really matters.
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Thank you for your comment 😊 I’m trying my best. I always had a companion until now. I’m having to be strong and do everything as a single.
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Marriage if it happens, happens when you least expect it. I was 38 when I met me husband, it’ been 20 years. the first didn’t work .
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I appreciate you telling me that Melinda. So there is no set pattern or particular way that things happen. Thank you for your comment 😊 💕
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Kepp living in a way that makes you happy and stay focused on your health, life will work itself out.
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I’m glad you are keeping in touch. I’m having a really hard time with blogging lately. But like you said, blogland can be very satisfying.
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Thank you for your comment Linda. Yes I’m finding that some of the people in blogland know me better than those in real life 😊 💕
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Same here!
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These are all great habits.❤️I love your wax warmer, I have a couple of them myself. I enjoy a Zen scent that reminds me of a spa. Thank you for sharing.✨
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Thank you Amber. After years of trial and error I’m making new rules to live by. The scent warmer in the picture I believe is the ocean with the sun rising above it. The bulb inside serves as the sun. I will have to try the Zen scent. 😊 💕
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That’s such a cool concept, the bulb as the sun.✨
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