
As I begin to trust myself more and other people less I want to talk about a certain circumstance that has happened to me twice in the recent past.
Two men did the same thing. One was quite a bit younger than me, another was quite a bit older than me.
The young one I was just getting to know.
The old one I had known for over ten years.
The relationships were that of being friends.
I asked both of them about a scenario that involved me and another person. I described the scenario looking for advice and was careful not to mention a name.
They both said the same thing to me, “Its none of my business.”
All of a sudden I felt guilty like I had done something wrong.
Then I thought that both of these guys were projecting their own badness into me playing themselves as good guy.
Maybe not a frame job but a head game?
Did they simply not know the answer and that’s all they could think of to say?
I only learned to doubt myself because of the way narcissists can play.😊 💕 🌈 ✨ 💜